Doesn't sound like any Enfj that I know of but they are all different. I'm an Infp living and in a relationship with an Enfj male. He could also be an Entj, though or enfj but with a nurtured T if that isfp datings enfj sense. I do think enfjs need a lot of healing. Your enfj is drained and needs to recharge, I would say to recharge each other, though.
These are assumptions from me, I admit but I hope they help since I am in a relationship with an enfj.
Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, the ISFP's natural partner is the ESFJ, or the ENFJ. ISFP's dominant .
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