They tell you to stop being prudish and silly and to recognize that modern dating means settling until you make it. Everyone can be beautiful, desirable, and especially adequate. Live your own dream and find your own way. As a plus-size womanI struggled a lot with feeling worthy of my life, let alone being loved by someone else.
How Online Dating While Overweight Taught Me To Love My Fat Body I wouldn't have the luxury of being able to pretend I was more skinny.